Are You Ready to Help Him Commit?

Listen, we don't need to talk this into the ground. What we're going to do is get you to understand how to get what you want from your relationship.

Relationships often follow certain patterns. We start to date then hold certain expectations. We become familiar with the one we love and want more. Sometimes we take them for granted. But most often, we spend the majority of our time trying to get someone else to give us what we think we deserve.

Forget that.

Forget about trying to communicate your relationship to death or get on your man's last nerve. Learn how to reinvent your relationship and reignite his interest instead.

Think about the patterns of life for a min. You take the same route to go to work, you come home. You eat the same foods on a regular basis. You react in similar ways to similar problems.

Although constancy is necessary and offers us security, it often hinders us from growing to the next level. If you can't remember how you got home from work because you always drive the same way, your mind has developed a pattern and placed you on auto-pilot.

I really can't understand why some women complain about not getting what they want then when offered advice, they think you're trying to tell them to play games.

In order for you to get a certain response, you must act a certain way. You have to come out of your small patterns, get outside the box and do something that will really guarantee that you will get what you want.

Nicole Gayle is the author of the e-book, How to Go from Girlfriend to Wife, written to help you take your man from maybe to "I do" - Be the kind of woman your man HAS to marry. http://www.howtogofromgirlfriendtowife.com