Excuses Men Use When They Don't Want to Commit

You've Likely Heard at Least One of These From Your Man
If you and your man have been together for any length of time, there's a very good chance that the subject of marriage has popped up now and again. You can always tell a lot about a man's commitment issues by how he handles this subject. If he starts to squirm, sweat and excuses begin pouring out of him, you've got a man who isn't ready for marriage on your hands.

Every man is obviously unique but they do have some common excuses they like to use when it comes to why they don't want to marry. Here's a few prime examples:

He can't afford it. If he's living paycheck to paycheck this may be a real issue, but if he's got a stable job and his credit is good, this isn't a viable excuse. As women, we already know how important it is to take care of ourselves financially and the men in our lives are aware of that. If you two are doing fine in terms of your own individual finances, marriage isn't going to impact that.

He wants to own a home before he gets married. This is a very common excuse that men use when they are trying to avoid a walk down the aisle. The truth is that with your salaries combined you are much more likely to afford a home sooner.

He's not ready for kids. I've always had difficulty understanding this reasoning. Is there a rule that says you must have children within a certain timeframe after marriage? If your boyfriend is using this as an excuse, it's really that - nothing but an excuse.

He's not sure you're his soulmate. This is actually a painful excuse when you hear it. If you've been with this man for any length of time and you love him, it's hard to hear him telling you that he's not certain you're the woman for him.

Regardless of what excuse he's using, you can get him to fall hopelessly in love with you and want to marry you. Find out now how to do that.